The Lovely Bones: Structure In Memoir
October 29, 2015 § 17 Comments
A Halloween-themed blog post from Janice Gary:
You could say I’m a ghostwriter. All memoirists are. We commune with the spirits of the past, inhabit old haunts, sift through the bones of the people we once were (and once knew) in an attempt to reanimate what was and illuminate what is.
Our ghosts are real. Or at least as real as we remember them. One thing we cannot do is make stuff up. And we don’t need to. We have more than enough material to conjure life on the page. But that’s part of the problem. What do you do with it all – all that experience, all that emotion? What spooks those of us who write from life the most is this dilemma: how to wrangle this vast, unwieldy life of ours into a well-shaped story.
Fiction writers have the old tried and true (and yes, trite) basic plot triangle to turn to for structure. Conflict leads to a crisis/climax point which forces the protagonist to confront something (either themselves or a foe). The outcome of this changes everything and leads to resolution.
While narrative nonfiction writers can borrow from fiction and use some of the same techniques, the very nature of the material we are working with dictates we approach storytelling in a different way. Fiction writers start with nothing and create a world. Memoirists start with an entire universe that already exists. We are more like sculptors than painters, relying on the advice of Michelangelo, who supposedly said he made the statue of David by taking away everything in the stone that was not David. We create story by carving and cutting to the bone.
That means deciding who and what we want to pull out of the block of stone. When I sit down to tell a story, I have to ask, whose story is it — the child who longed to be accepted? The young woman who stood up to her fears? And what is the heart, the very essence of the story I want to tell? The answer to that question leads to structure.
It’s not as easy as it sounds. Just a slight shift in the emotional center of a story can influence not only the “how” (order, time, chapters, sections) but the “what” (the scenes, the dialogue, the people, the experiences) that will become the bones of the narrative.
I suggest my students answer the question “What is it about?” at least five times and keep asking it until they understand their core theme. There can be many answers to this question – and many things a story is about –but it’s essential to identify the overriding theme at the center of the story that connects everything.
Once we have a sense of this core, we start to impose limits, a backdrop for the play to play out against. We inhabit so many worlds in a lifetime. For the purposes of structure, we need to ask which one of these worlds contains the most dramatic instances of conflict and crisis, moments that would make good storytelling – and even more importantly, still call to be unpacked, laid out end to end and examined.
A good place to start is time and setting. Deciding on a fixed time or place does not mean you cannot write outside of that time or place. What is does do is provide an anchor for flashing forward and back. This is important because a memoir needs a structure that will support time travel. We live our days wandering back and forth between past, present and future. Life does not unfold in a neat triangle of conflict, climax and resolution but is more like a ragged ridge made of many triangles, with some crisis/climax points not occurring until years after the inciting incident. The challenge of memoir is to shape the fluid nature of existence.
We start by understanding what story out of the many stories of our life we want to tell. Then we assemble the skeleton, working outward from the spine, the very core of what our story is about. As the hip bone connects to the thigh bone, the connective tissue of memory and meaning begins to form. And the story takes shape.
Janice Gary is the author of the award-winning book Short Leash: a Memoir of Dog Walking and Deliverance. She teaches nonfiction for Arizona State University’s Master of Liberal Arts Program and conducts memoir workshops around the country.
I was lucky to be in Jan’s two-session class on this topic (at the Bethesda Writer’s Center) just before leaving on a writing residency. Jan, this exercise and your other teachings helped me a lot! Thanks for putting it in writing.
Hi Irene. Good to hear from you. In fact, this post was inspired by our class at The Writer’s Center. Such a rich topic.
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“Our ghosts are real. Or at least as real as we remember them. One thing we cannot do is make stuff up. And we don’t need to. We have more than enough material to conjure life on the page. But that’s part of the problem.”
Thanks for this thought-provoking and instructional post. I’m taking an online fiction writing class now just to learn a few new things and keep writing, but this clarified why I cannot relate to the standard plot structure. I wish I lived closer so I could take one of your workshops.
Thanks, Ro.one great way to learn structure is from other books. Take it apart, see how they do it. Good luck on your writing- fiction or non.
nice for a lecturer or how do you folks call it over there? Nice ghost writing Janice but I believe memoirists are more physical than spiritual, no problem
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I’m glad to read your post. I am writing a creative nonfiction post weekly now and enjoying learning as I go. Everything you noted has worked for me–or could function much better!
Love this so much, especially this, “All memoirists are. We commune with the spirits of the past, inhabit old haunts, sift through the bones of the people we once were…” Yes, yes, and yes.
This is so great. I love the idea of taking a step back and asking yourself which “you” is going to be the storyteller.
So many to chose from, right? Or perhaps a new “I” integrating who we are now.
This is so very, very timely. I’m an editor as well as a writer. Mostly my editing focuses on language, but I’m currently working on a critique of a memoir manuscript. The writer is an ace storyteller, and has he ever got stories to tell, but, strange to say, the stories are getting in the way of The Story. The first chapter does an excellent job of setting the anchor, but then the reader is faced with a banquet table that stretches out for miles in either direction. Where to start, where to start? “What is the story?” is the question I’ve got to discuss with the writer — after I get a better grasp of the possibilities.
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This blog post is about writing a memoir, but as a writer whose fiction doesn’t follow a “tried-and-true” plot structure, I find its advice very helpful. Maybe you will too.
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