Maybe You Don’t Need to Write Every Day
February 23, 2017 § 41 Comments
By Annie L. Scholl
I’m not sure how I got the message that I had to write every day to be a “real” writer, but I’ll blame it on Julia Cameron and her book, The Artist’s Way. I read it when it came out in 1992. Cameron suggests a daily practice of “Morning Pages:” Three pages of longhand, stream-of-consciousness writing you do first thing in the morning.
To be fair, Cameron makes it clear that your Morning Pages don’t have to be “high art.” You can rant, write your shopping list over and over, whatever you want. She does insist, though, that you fill three pages—every day.
I did Morning Pages religiously—for about a week-and-a-half. Over the years, I’ve tried again and again. Although the daily practice of Morning Pages didn’t stick, the idea that I had to write every day to be successful did. After all, Ernest Hemingway, E.B. White and Maya Angelou did.
To actually write daily, I knew I had to do it first thing in the morning, before the day got away from me. But to write “at first light,” as Hemingway did, actually requires getting your ass out of bed at first light.
Only one problem with that: I didn’t want to.
Now and then, though, I willed myself out of bed at the crack of dawn. With hands on the keyboard or pen in hand, words mostly landed on the page. “This is easy!” I’d think. “I’ll do this again tomorrow!”
But like the promises I made to myself about getting on the treadmill, “tomorrow” never consistently came.
Until 2011.
That year I attended a memoir-writing workshop in Colorado with author Abigail Thomas. After that workshop, I was on fire. Fueled by the workshop and a writing group that grew out of it, I wrote nearly every day—until 2016. One day of not writing turned into another and another—and then I was out of the routine.
Nine months into 2016, my writing software gave me the cold, hard facts: I had worked on my manuscript exactly seven times.
That little voice—the one that said I had to write daily—was now screaming at me. But instead of believing it, I decided to question it: Was it really true that I had to write daily to be a successful writer?
Writers like Khaled Hosseini say yes. In a 2012 interview with Noah Charney in The Daily Beast, the international best-selling author of The Kite Runner said: “To be a writer—this may seem trite, I realize—you have to actually write. You have to write every day, and you have to write whether you feel like it or not.”
Cue the self-flogging.
One especially grumbly not-writing day, I reached out to author Beth Kephart, who I’d studied memoir writing with last fall.
“Annie, I go months and months without writing,” the award-winning author of Handling the Truth: On the Writing of Memoir told me. “And so when I do write, it all feels brand new—again.”
Kephart said she has never had the time to write daily.
“What I believe in is the power of holding one scene or moment in your head for a long time, before writing. I believe in urgency—that urgency must fuel the process and the page.”
To hell, she said, with writing an hour a day. “Go with fervor once a week or once a month, or whatever your life yields.”
Buoyed by Kephart’s response, I contacted Abigail Thomas, whose writing workshop had fueled my five-year, near-daily writing practice.
Do you write every day, I asked?
“Not unless I’m already engaged in something, then I write all the time,” said Thomas, whose most recent memoir, What Comes Next and How to Like It, was published in 2015 by Scribner.
“Mostly I’ve no self-discipline unless I’m already in gear. Then it’s all I do,” she said. “It has nothing to do with discipline then. It’s a hunger.”
Bar Scott, author of the memoir The Present Giver, said she only writes daily “when I’m writing something that I’m on fire about and that my whole body needs and wants to express.”
“When I get like that, whether I’m writing a song, a book or a blog, I write non-stop,” she said.
But most days, Scott doesn’t feel like writing. So she doesn’t.
Kephart’s good friend, author Rahna Reiko Rizzuto, doesn’t write daily or weekly either.
“I wish I did,” said Rizzuto, whose memoir Hiroshima in the Morning, was a National Book Critics Circle Award finalist. But instead, she said, “writing comes in waves—in and out.”
Still, Rizzuto, who teaches at Goddard College in Vermont and conducts writing workshops, recommends her students engage in daily writing practice.
“When you write every day, you do capture more of those stray ideas that are waiting to be used, and you avoid the fear—writer’s block is fear after all—that you can’t write, that you won’t be able to write ever again, or at least not anything as good as what you have written.”
Rizzuto nails what’s been my greatest fear: That if I don’t write every day, the words won’t come when I do sit down. But I’ve learned over the past several months of non-daily writing practice that the words actually do show up. Especially if I don’t chase them down.
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Annie Scholl is a freelance writer who frequently contributes to Huffington Post, Unity Magazine, Daily Word, and unity.org. A native Iowan who graduated from the University of Iowa, she moved to North Carolina in 2013 with her wife, Michelle. Annie is finishing her first memoir. She blogs at www.anniescholl.com.
Tagged: Bar Scott, Beth Kephart, Julia Cameron, Rahna Reiko Rizzuto
I wholeheartedly agree with you on this. The urge to write is there every day, of course. But it’s either life gets in the way or there’s a hunger to write something great–and when the latter doesn’t happen, there’s tremendous self-loathing. So, I wait until I’m ravenous, though I do believe in striking fully while the iron is hot. As Henry David Thoreau puts it – “Write while the heat is in you… The writer who postpones the recording of his thoughts uses an iron which has cooled to burn a hole with.”
Thank you for reading and for sharing, Kristel. And I love that Thoreau quote.
Living life is also good for your writing. Go do other things. Carry a notebook. Writing everyday might be obsessive but one must write frequently, regularly. If it’s only occasionally then you can’t call yourself a writer. Musicians — real ones — play, and play often.
Agreed. Thank you for reading and commenting
The best advice I ever got from a mentor was to learn to trust my “seasons”. Nice to read another voice speaking out against the myth.
I love that, Ren. Thank you for reading – and for commenting.
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There’s an urge and then there’s the hunger. Then there’s the fear that both won’t return. To be a writer, one must write something, somewhat, somehow. It’s like the violin, which I am learning. One must keep at it, in some capacity.
Thank you for reblogging! I appreciate that. Love what you wrote, too.
At Edward Albee’s Play Lab in Alaska, we asked Albee whether we should write every day. After a moment, he replied, “I don’t think you have to write every day. But be a writer every day.”
I love that, Martha. Thank you!
Great subject, Annie. The same hold true for painter’s. I can’t paint everyday but I find when I get back into the studio, I’ve been painting everyday in my mind.
So very true, Tara. Thank you!!
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Good luck Alex!
Maybe its a matter of staying closely acquainted with one’s own unique processes, strengths, weaknesses, whatever that might be at a given point in time, how you work best, what parts tend to trip you up, diagnosing one’s process in a sense, and then creating one’s recipe for writing, the ‘treatment plan’ based around that.
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Here is a great post by Annie Scholl on the Brevity blog that focuses on the topic of the value of writing every day.
Thank you!
You’re welcome
I’m no expert — really, still very much a novice — but it would seem that one should write only when one is inspired. And when you are not feeling inspired, then you seek out things that could inspire you, whatever new/reliable text, image, discussion, or other experience that may be. Your life and your writing thus merge into a self-perpetuating cycle.
Always writing in my mind, even if I don’t “write” each day. I am not alone! Thanks for writing this.
Thanks for reading, Tara!
Great article. Thank you for sharing 🙂
Thanks for reading, Aui!
🙂
I am 65 and have many idaes of books floatint around in my mind. I’ve started several, but after a while a question comes into my head. “OK, you finish one of these, your an old man who’s going to publish you?” That is when I put up the manuscript and go on with my life. I’ve been working on them for more then ten years. check out Clan Wars
For now I just want to write. I don’t have a book project . Just sharing my thoughts in a blog. Second post and I feel so happy! I miss writing for more than 20 years!
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Thank you again, Erika!
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A belated thank you for sharing. I’m glad it was helpful to you!
So I have several notebooks filled with book ideas, and partial starts to those books. I can write my thoughts or feelings, but when it comes to books I want to write, I can never finish. I do try to write everyday even if it is just a simple journal entry, how I felt that day or even just three words. I recently started up my wordpress blog again in hopes of inspiration and maybe even inspiring others. Thanks for writing this.
Glad you’re writing. And you’re welcome! Thanks for reading. 🙂
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Stephen King also swears by writing every day…but he ALSO says that he throws most of it away. Most. Of. It.
As an aspiring author who also works a full-time job and has relationships to upkeep, the writing every day thing kills me. I want to be more productive, but I can spend a lunchtime staring at a blank screen b/c my mind is still on work. And after work, there’s grocery shopping and making dinner and eating and cleaning and forcing myself to write usually leads to exhausted drivel. Some of us have different lifestyles or different ways of working. It’s comforting to hear other people talk about not writing every day. I just interviewed Sarah Buchanan on my blog who said that’s the number one tip she’d give to a young or new writer: don’t get sucked into the idea that if you’re not writing every day, you’re not a real writer.
Thank you for sharing!!
“Rizzuto nails what’s been my greatest fear: That if I don’t write every day, the words won’t come when I do sit down. But I’ve learned over the past several months of non-daily writing practice that the words actually do show up. Especially if I don’t chase them down.”
I found this last paragraph of your piece incredibly compelling. I often fear that somehow, if I’m not squeezing out ideas from my head every morning and night, I’ll lose my edge when I do start writing again. But as one of the comments above argued, I agree living life and making time away from writing in your day is also important. Writing comes from thoughts, feelings, and more. But where do those come from? Experience. Context. Memories. And more.
While I don’t know about anyone else, personally I’ve found that even after not writing for a couple weeks, I’ll still retain my writing style and thought process if I experience something powerful enough to spark it. It’s difficult for me to explain, but it comes naturally to me. Though I’m sure there are those who prefer writing every day. I definitely agree on the other hand, it helps to even jot down a couple “not as good” or stray ideas and get them out. We could also develop those ideas into something bigger if we wanted to.
Thanks for sharing! I thought it was just me for feeling this fear. However, it reassures me to see this fear put into words as you just did- and isn’t that one of the greatest things about writing! 🙂
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Thanks for posting this. I totally agree with the philosophy of not having to write every single day- it can drain your creativity.
It’s like working out- if you’re going to make gains, you can’t go hard every single day or else your body ends up breaking down physiologically (overtraining).
In terms of writing, overtraining psychological issue. The brain needs rest in order to be creatively effective.
*is a psychological issue
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So many articles pile on the guilt if you don’t or can’t write for a day, a week, longer. But guilt doesn’t help and can in fact make things worse. This article is a much needed rebuttal to the “you must write every single day or you’re not a writer” mindset
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Write Every Day…?
Today’s re-blog explores that idea—thoroughly,,,
You might call it “balanced reporting” 🙂
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